Lily is a nonbinary white person who was 21 at the time of recording. Lily covers growing up from one through ten years old in Minnesota and then moving to Portland afterwards because her parents desired a liberal environment. Lily talks about struggling to make friends in middle school. She also candidly discusses how Disability affected her growing up as someone with ADHD and existing in a non-adaptive environment without her access needs being met. Lily talks about the large influence attending a historically women's college on her Lesbianism and gender identity by reading theory especially learning about compulsory heterosexuality. Lily attends a historically women's college and meets all her Lesbian friends there. They discuss the importance of identifying as a Lesbian, what Lesbian spaces they wish existed, and when they are happiest as a Lesbian.
